For many actors, stepping onto a television set means memorizing dialogue, hitting marks, and delivering emotional performances. But every once in a while, a role demands something far more intimidating: complete vulnerability.
That was exactly the experience Stephen Kalyn faced while bringing Dean Di Laurentis to life in Prime Video’s Off Campus.
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The actor has quickly become one of the breakout stars of the college romance adaptation, but behind the confidence audiences see onscreen was an actor who admits several moments during filming pushed him far outside his comfort zone.
Speaking during the Off Campus panel at Prime Video’s Obsessed Fest in Los Angeles, Kalyn offered fans an honest look at what it was really like making one of the streamer’s most talked-about romance series.
His answer surprised plenty of people.
While viewers may remember Dean’s easy confidence and charismatic personality, Kalyn confessed that filming scenes requiring him to appear shirtless—or with very little clothing—wasn’t nearly as effortless as it looked.
In fact, it was one of the biggest personal challenges he encountered during production.
Because Dean spends much of the series showing off the athletic confidence expected from one of Briar University’s most popular hockey players, Kalyn found himself appearing without a shirt in scene after scene.
Eventually, that meant becoming increasingly comfortable with the cameras.
Or at least learning how to pretend he was.
The actor admitted that those moments could be awkward.
Even after filming multiple scenes, there were days when standing in front of an entire production crew wearing very little still felt intimidating.
It’s an experience many viewers probably never consider.
While audiences only see the finished product, dozens of people are typically present behind the camera during even the most intimate scenes.
Directors, cinematographers, lighting technicians, costume staff, makeup artists, sound operators, script supervisors, and production assistants all contribute to creating what eventually appears as a private moment between characters.
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For performers, that reality requires a remarkable level of trust.
Kalyn says the experience ultimately became empowering.
Rather than allowing discomfort to overwhelm him, he gradually embraced the challenge, joking that after surviving those filming days, he now feels ready to conquer just about anything.
It’s the kind of confidence that often comes from doing something initially terrifying.
The conversation wasn’t limited to Kalyn’s experiences.
His co-star Mika Abdalla also shared the scene that challenged her the most, though surprisingly, it had nothing to do with romance.
Instead, her biggest fear involved music.
Abdalla revealed she was genuinely nervous about filming Allie’s memorable drunk karaoke performance.
For viewers, the scene became one of season one’s funniest highlights.
Allie enthusiastically throws herself into an emotional rendition of “Take Me or Leave Me” from Rent, delivering a performance that’s intentionally chaotic, heartfelt, and hilariously off-key.
Behind the scenes, however, Abdalla found the experience far more nerve-racking than audiences might imagine.
Unlike her fearless character, the actress describes herself as much more reserved.
Standing in front of castmates, crew members, and cameras while intentionally singing badly proved unexpectedly intimidating.
She admitted feeling scared before filming began.
Adding another layer of difficulty was Allie’s personality itself.
Throughout Off Campus, Allie bursts with energy, spontaneity, and emotional openness.
Abdalla says that’s very different from who she naturally is.
Maintaining that level of enthusiasm every day required constant effort.
Playing outgoing characters can sometimes be more exhausting than portraying quieter personalities.
The audience only sees the finished performance.
Actors experience the work required to sustain it for hours at a time.
Perhaps the most entertaining revelation from the panel involved Kalyn and Abdalla’s real-life friendship.
Watching Dean and Allie’s chemistry unfold onscreen, many fans assume the two actors connected immediately.
The truth turned out to be considerably funnier.
According to Abdalla, she knew Kalyn was the perfect Dean almost instantly.
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After reading opposite numerous actors during chemistry tests, she felt his performance stood out above everyone else.
The decision, she says, quickly became unanimous.
Ironically, once production actually started, their friendship didn’t develop nearly as smoothly.
Abdalla revealed that Kalyn appeared noticeably intimidated when they first met.
At first, she couldn’t understand why.
Eventually, she confronted him directly, sensing there might be tension between them.
That’s when Kalyn confessed the real reason.
He honestly believed she disliked him.
The misunderstanding had nothing to do with anything she actually said.
Instead, Kalyn had been fooled by what Abdalla jokingly describes as her “resting bitch face.”
While she was simply being herself, Kalyn interpreted her neutral expression as disapproval.
Rather than allowing awkwardness to continue, the two talked through it.
The conversation lasted only minutes.
Immediately afterward, everything changed.
What began as uncertainty quickly evolved into one of the closest friendships on set.
Today, Abdalla describes Kalyn almost like family.
She affectionately jokes that despite his physical size, he’s incredibly gentle and surprisingly easy to intimidate.
It’s a dynamic fans likely wouldn’t expect after watching Dean’s confident swagger throughout season one.
Moments like these offer a fascinating reminder of how different actors often are from the characters they portray.
Dean enters nearly every room radiating confidence.
Kalyn openly admits vulnerability.
Allie rarely hesitates to express herself.
Abdalla considers herself far more reserved.
That’s part of what makes acting so compelling.
The people audiences admire onscreen are frequently stretching themselves well beyond their natural personalities.
The timing of these behind-the-scenes stories feels particularly exciting because season two is preparing to place Dean and Allie at the center of the narrative.
While season one primarily focused on Garrett and Hannah’s romance, fans already received an early glimpse into Dean and Allie’s developing relationship.
Their connection unfolded quietly throughout the season before becoming one of its most pleasant surprises.
That wasn’t accidental.
Showrunner Louisa Levy recently explained that Dean and Allie’s romance almost unfolded very differently.
Initially, she planned to give the couple their own dedicated episode.
Those plans changed after learning the first season would consist of eight episodes rather than ten.
Faced with fewer episodes, Levy reconsidered the structure.
Instead of postponing their romance entirely, she decided to weave it naturally throughout the season.
The decision accomplished multiple goals simultaneously.
Allie already shared a close friendship with Hannah.
Dean already lived inside the Off Campus house.
Keeping their relationship quietly developing in the background felt completely organic.
Levy also loved another aspect of the books.
In Elle Kennedy’s original novel The Score, Dean and Allie’s romance begins as a secret.
Rather than immediately announcing their relationship to viewers, the television adaptation embraced that same spirit.
The gradual reveal created a satisfying surprise for audiences unfamiliar with the novels.
Now, season two promises to fully embrace their story.
Since the upcoming episodes adapt The Score, Dean and Allie officially move into the spotlight.
That transition gives both Kalyn and Abdalla significantly larger emotional responsibilities.
Instead of supporting another couple’s romance, they’ll now carry the season themselves.
Fortunately, the friendship they’ve built behind the scenes should make that transition considerably easier.
Trust between scene partners often becomes one of the most valuable assets during romantic productions.
Whether filming emotionally vulnerable conversations, comedic misunderstandings, or physically intimate moments, genuine friendship creates an atmosphere where actors feel safe taking creative risks.
Judging from their playful interactions during Obsessed Fest, Kalyn and Abdalla appear to have developed exactly that kind of partnership.
It’s the sort of chemistry that audiences can usually recognize without fully understanding why it works so well.
Looking back, it’s almost amusing to think their friendship nearly stalled because of a misunderstood facial expression.
One honest conversation changed everything.
That same openness seems to define much of what fans appreciate about the Off Campus cast.
Rather than pretending every scene came naturally, Kalyn and Abdalla openly acknowledge the moments that frightened them.
Whether standing half-dressed in front of dozens of crew members or belting out karaoke in character, they embraced discomfort in pursuit of authentic performances.
Those experiences ultimately helped both actors grow—not just professionally, but personally as well.
And as Off Campus prepares to shift its focus toward Dean and Allie’s love story, that willingness to step outside their comfort zones may prove to be one of the biggest reasons audiences continue falling in love with the series.
After all, the most memorable performances rarely come from actors who never feel nervous.
They come from performers who choose to move forward despite it.